March 9, 2011

Severing Ties

Why do people who want you to be straight with them get upset when you give them what they asked for in the first place?

You want truth, I give truth. You want to know where you stand, I tell you. You ask what's wrong, I tell you.

Ahh. Because you wanted a different answer. But that's not how life necessarily works--or relationships.

I give my honesty to others with love, gently, not dripping with sarcasm or anger. My words don't come from a place of malice. I never want to hurt a person I care for.

As a friend, I need to tell you truths. Just as I need it from you.

And if we can't agree on that....

1 comments:

Pokei said...

You go girl!!!!! Say it like it is and I will still love you no matter what!